I had my first golf lesson last weekend in Palm Springs. Sweating in the 103-degree heat, I tried as hard as I could to whack the hell out of the golf ball, which kept plopping a short distance down the driving range. It wasn’t long before my back started to get sore.
“I don’t think I’m doing this right,” I told my instructor.
He watched me swing the club as hard as I could. “Stop trying so hard,” he suggested.
Easy for him to say. I’ve been playing sports all my life. Give me a bat, or a stick, or a racket, and I’ll swing as hard as I can at whatever ball is in front of me. It’s what I’ve been trained to do.
“It’s not about how hard you can hit the ball,” my instructor said. “It’s about hitting the ball the right way.”
I adjusted my grip and let gravity help guide the path of the club as I took another swing. The ball cut a graceful arc through the air and sailed far down the driving range. The solid connection my club made with the ball felt natural. It felt right. I wanted to do it again.
But no matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t duplicate that satisfying swing – the one where I got everything right. Pretty soon, I was back to my bad habits, swinging the club as hard as I could, trying to hit the ball just a bit farther. Swinging the club hard was easier than swinging it right.
I find myself slipping into the same bad habits in my job. Often, it’s easier to work harder by staying late or working on the weekends than it is to work the right way by working more productively. I know I’m more productive in the afternoons if I eat a light lunch and spend a half hour exercising and stretching at the gym.
But when faced with a looming deadline, I often push through the day without a break. I’ll find myself dragging in the afternoon, which means I’ll have to stay late to finish the work. Working harder, by not taking a break, means that I’ll have to work longer than I would have if I’d just taken some time out for lunch and the gym and had a really productive afternoon.
Why is it easier to work longer hours than it is to work more productively? Do long hours matter more rather than a really productive 40-hour week when it comes to getting a bonus, or a promotion, or a choice assignment?
Maybe it’s because the long hours are the visible, measurable proof of hard work. Besides, if everyone’s doing it, it’s hard not to go along with the crowd.
I wonder if success can be achieved with just one side of the equation – working longer or working more productively. For the CEOs on our ultimate short list, it’s probably not an either/or proposition.
Maybe I just need to learn how to hit the ball the right way and hit it as absolutely hard as I can.